Thomas Christian Dehn

KÆRLIG FESTIVAL

A man is sitting on the floor with his legs crossed, wearing a black T-shirt and glasses, looking thoughtfully upward in a bright room with large windows.

Tantra Massage Therapist, De-Armouring Practitioner, and Co-Founder of "BEVIDST"

Thomas Christian Dehn is an experienced tantra massage therapist and De-Armouring practitioner who brings a deep understanding of tantra and healing practices to the Kærlig Festival. In addition to being a skilled teacher, Thomas also co-founded “BEVIDST” with Kate Aura and Lisa Lawrie.

Since 2018, Thomas has been dedicated to exploring and sharing the wisdom of the tantric path. His passion for tantra stems from a personal journey from deep emptiness to a life filled with joy, love, and authenticity. One of his core teachings is that “the deepest, darkest caves hold the greatest treasures,” which reflects his approach to his work.

Thomas’s approach to tantric spirituality is practical and applicable to everyday life. He offers workshops and sessions that serve as small nudges or bumps along the way, contributing to greater authenticity and wholeness in life.

Specializing in working with women who need to be acknowledged, seen, and respected by the masculine, Thomas creates a safe and caring environment. He maintains high ethical standards in his work, along with a high level of professionalism and integrity, ensuring that participants can explore and grow at their own pace.

Thomas Christian Dehn is dedicated to creating sensual, healing, and holistic experiences where participants can discover a deeper connection to themselves and to one another.

WORKSHOPS

Introduction to Tantra

Curious about tantra but not quite sure where to start?

This workshop is for anyone who wants to understand what tantra really is—without all the mystique and confusion. We’ll discuss the ideas and philosophy behind it, what it means in practice, and you’ll have the opportunity to ask any questions you may have.

We also work with simple exercises in mindfulness and setting boundaries—because tantra begins with knowing and respecting ourselves and each other.

No prior knowledge is required. Just an open mind and a desire to learn.


Liquid Love

A sensory workshop featuring oil, touch, and mindfulness. Participants are invited into a playful and physically exploratory space focused on connection, trust, and the joy of life.

After a guided introduction, we glide—naked or nearly so—through a sea of warm, luscious oils in a large “pool” made of plastic or tarpaulin. Liquid Love isn’t sexual, but rather a body-positive and magical space for intimacy, oxytocin, and deep connection. A place where you can let go of your thoughts and simply be present—with clear guidelines regarding boundaries, touch, and nudity.


Tantric Massage

Experience presence, mindful touch, and deeper connection through tantric massage.

In this workshop, we’ll explore how touch can become a form of meditation and a path to greater connection with both yourself and your partner. You’ll receive guidance and inspiration on how to give and receive massage with presence, respect, and mindfulness.

Bring
a partner, a sarong, a towel or sheet, and massage oil.